Our Mission: Helping You Find Home Again

At Homing Instinct, we offer personalized mentorship and support services for adolescents and young adults navigating the complexities of mental health, relationships, and personal growth. We specialize in working with highly sensitive, and often misunderstood teens and young adults who need more than traditional therapy—providing the kind of hands-on guidance and real-life support that fosters lasting change.

Our approach is flexible, individualized, and deeply relational. With options including home visits, wraparound care, and ongoing availability, we meet clients where they are.

Through mentorship, structured support, and meaningful connection, we help teens and young adults build confidence, strengthen relationships, and develop the tools they need to navigate life’s challenges. We work closely with families to bridge communication gaps, establish healthy routines, and create an environment where growth is not only possible but sustainable.

The homing instinct is nature’s way of reminding us that, no matter how far we wander, we are wired to find our way back to ourselves. Let’s start that journey together.

17 years old, in wilderness therapy, with a crown of branches and a fire I made.

Ciara Fanlo, Founder and Mentor

My name is Ciara. I was in your shoes.

I was intelligent, bright, and full of promise, then when I hit the teenage years, my life fell apart. I became a shell of myself, and unrecognizable to my parents. At my core, I just felt “wrong” and empty. I was constantly cycling through extreme emotions, and always looking for relief in other people. I felt sensitive, insecure, and had no sense self-worth, or hope things would ever change. So I did anything I could to numb the pain — disordered eating, self-harm, and suicide attempts.

After countless therapists and medications, I was finally sent to an inpatient hospital, wilderness therapy, and a therapeutic boarding school.

My experiences ranged from healing to damaging to disorienting, and everything in between. During this time, I unintentionally approached it like a study in human behavior—watching closely, observing dynamics, and mentally taking notes. I noticed how my peers responded to the programs, how the adults interacted with us, and the varying impacts of different approaches. I saw how some were meaningful and supportive, while others created pain and confusion in the name of therapy.

As a young adult, I needed to make sense of what I had experienced — recover from the harm caused, retain what had healed me, and rebuild my life from a place I’d never expected to be.

I became the mentor I once needed—so I could have the privilege of supporting you as you find your way home.

As I began sharing my story, people started reaching out—asking questions, seeking advice, and wondering if I could connect with their teen. Word spread, and I quickly realized how much this kind of support was needed. That’s when I decided to dedicate myself to this work full-time.

In developing Homing Instinct, I reflected on everything I’d learned—from my time in treatment, my work in therapeutic settings with young people, and the countless conversations I’ve had with families over the years. My goal has been to create the kind of support system that would have been transformative for me during my own journey towards adulthood.

I know what your child is going through.
I understand the chaos and confusion your family is feeling.
And I recognize the strength and faith it takes to show up to this journey.

It is the greatest gift to be part of a teenager’s ecosystem, to be entrusted with their most powerful and transformative journey, and to be, for someone else, the person I needed when I was younger.

Everything I do is in service to adolescents everywhere.

If there is anything you take from reading this, please know I, with my whole heart, believe in your child's ability to triumph, to thrive, and to bravely become their true self. Sometimes, these painful, scary, and challenging years are the necessary initiations—the passages they must walk to step into who they are meant to be. I encourage you to hold faith in them, in yourself, and in the journey they are meant to take. It would be an honor to walk alongside you.

*My name is pronounced like Keira Knightley, but the Knightley is silent :)

My Background:

Erica Sung, Group Facilitator

As a teenager, I was studious, friendly, and on the outside, well-adjusted despite all odds. But I was struggling. I seemed to be doing all the “right” things but couldn’t shake a deep sense of shame and dread. This led to patterns of self-destruction to try feeling anything else, all while struggling to uphold the image.

It was through the connection of patient mentors who helped me hold my pain that I was able to come back to myself.

Both my personal and professional backgrounds have diverse frameworks to pull from. I have worked in a range of settings including nonprofits, inpatient eating disorders, drug diversion programs, and young adult mentorship. I tend to lean towards a blend of cognitive and somatic approaches and love finding creative ways to help connect the emotional dots.

Together we can tend to the parts that feel stuck with curiosity and compassion; to be seen and celebrated as you find momentum. And for when things get hard, to borrow belief.

Wherever you and your family are at on this path, I’d be glad to meet you there.

Background

  • MSW Candidate at Metropolitan State University of Denver

  • Medical Social Work Intern at HCA HealthOne Aurora

  • Grant Recipient through Health Resources and Services Administration

  • Consult at Spring Institute

  • Clinical Therapy Intern at University of Colorado Anschutz ARTS

  • Behavioral Health Counselor at Eating Recovery Center

  • Supervisor Support Specialist & Volunteer Coordinator at Family Promise Spokane

  • Outdoor Recreation Mentor at Community Covenant Church, Alaska

  • Trained in intercultural communication, trauma-informed care, and Brainspotting